I am in love. I am in love with the way people love each other. I am in love with the way music can make people connect in a way that cannont be explained in one single word.
It isn’t your typical love story. These people have never met each other, they have never spoken to one another. The music rings in their ears, and the beat pulses through their bodies and they just move. They move together. We all move together. It is magic. So many connections made all because of the sound of the music. You can dance alone, but you aren’t alone. The people all around you are feeling the same vibes, the same flow. And there is no judgment. You jump, they jump. Someone starts cheering, others cheer too. You look around to see the hands going up, the bodies jumping through the fog and lights and you really can’t help but feel that connection.
I’ve always had this idea that a rave essentially included a bunch of drug induced bodies and that’s where the love came from. And yes, sometimes that is the case, and I’m OK with that too. You do you, man. There’s no judgment there. It wasn’t until recently I realized where the real love comes from. The music that makes you move. You notice someone feeling the same rhthym that you feel and suddenly you are dancing with a complete stranger. But somehow you feel so completely connected with this stranger, if only for a little while. It’s not trashy dancing, not the normal, bumb and grind that seems to take over in most places. It’s the care free, arms flailing kind of dancing where you just move how you wanna move. How ever the music moves you, you move. And it doesn’t matter if you move differently than someone else, it doesn’t matter. Nothing matters. All that matters is that you feel that freedom, the comfort of knowing that everyone is there, just like you, to have fun and to move to the music.
It’s strange for me to feel so comfortable in a group of strangers. There was a long few years of my life where my anxiety about being alone really affected my ability to enjoy myself. I wouldn’t dare drift away from a friend, and if they drifted from me, I would get offended and sad about it. But when you find yourself at one of these events, where the people who have been invited, have been invited because they too, just want to have a good care free time, it becomes easy to drift. It is easier to find another person who is drifting too. With a “hi, my name is Kelsey what is your name?” suddenly you have made a new friend.
The world needs more of this. We need to see the connection that we share with each other. There is always a connection in some way, even if it is hard to find. Don’t be scared to be alone, you are never really alone. Dance even if you think you can’t dance. Dance to feel that connection. I promise, it is worth it.
That’s it. A short post for today. A huge thank you to the organizers. They really know how to give the people a night to remember. I hope my donation helped, even if it was a small one. I can’t wait to do it again, and again.